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You’re having a disagreement with your boss. How can you make sure it doesn’t escalate?

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Disagreements with your boss are inevitable, but they don't have to ruin your relationship or your career. In fact, if handled well, they can be an opportunity to learn, grow, and improve your communication skills. But how do you prevent a simple disagreement from turning into a heated argument or a lasting conflict? Here are some tips to help you manage your differences with your boss in a constructive and respectful way.

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1 Identify the source

The first step is to identify the source of your disagreement. Is it about a specific task, a goal, a strategy, a value, or a personal issue? Knowing what you are disagreeing about can help you narrow down the scope of the problem and focus on the relevant facts and arguments. It can also help you avoid making assumptions or generalizations that could worsen the situation.

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Exprimez vos points de vue de manière claire et constructive, en utilisant un langage professionnel et non confrontant. Expliquez vos raisons et fournissez des exemples concrets pour étayer vos arguments.

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2 Listen actively

The second step is to listen actively to your boss's point of view. This means paying attention to what they are saying, asking questions to clarify or confirm your understanding, and acknowledging their feelings and concerns. Listening actively shows that you respect your boss and that you are willing to learn from their perspective. It also helps you identify any common ground or areas of agreement that you can build on.

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Dillion Roberts

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Listening to the other person's perspective and truly showing empathy is key. This can make all the difference and the place to start with this is by listening. If you are truly listening and being open to the other person you will be able to understand their perspective, which will help with a resolution.

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3 Express yourself clearly

The third step is to express yourself clearly and respectfully. This means stating your position, explaining your reasoning, providing evidence or examples, and sharing your feelings and expectations. Express yourself clearly also means avoiding personal attacks, accusations, or insults that could damage your relationship or credibility. Instead, use "I" statements to own your opinions and feelings, and avoid "you" statements that could sound blaming or accusatory.

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I've learned that being assertive, in a respectful and clear manner is key in leadership and in conflict resolution. If you're holding back or if you're overly aggressive, neither approach will help resolve the matter. Instead, you must try to be concise, clear and provide actual examples and information to back up your perspective. It's more important that you are willing to talk and put yourself out there though, as long as you're respectful.

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4 Seek a solution

The fourth step is to seek a solution that works for both of you. This means being open to compromise, negotiation, or collaboration, and avoiding a win-lose mentality. Seek a solution also means being realistic about what you can and cannot control, and accepting that you may not always get what you want. The goal is to find a way to resolve the disagreement in a way that meets both of your needs and interests, and that supports the overall success of your team and organization.

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5 Follow up

The fifth step is to follow up on the outcome of your disagreement. This means checking in with your boss to see how the solution is working, providing feedback or suggestions for improvement, and expressing appreciation for their cooperation and support. Follow up also means reflecting on what you learned from the experience, and how you can apply it to future situations. By following up, you can reinforce your relationship with your boss, and show that you are committed to continuous learning and improvement.

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6 Prevent escalation

The sixth and final step is to prevent escalation of your disagreement. This means avoiding repeating the same arguments, bringing up old issues, or holding grudges. It also means being aware of your triggers and emotions, and managing them effectively. Prevent escalation also means seeking help from a third party, such as a mediator, a mentor, or a colleague, if you feel that you cannot resolve the disagreement on your own. By preventing escalation, you can protect your reputation, your performance, and your well-being.

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7 Here’s what else to consider

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