The third step in addressing a concern with a coworker is to use positive communication skills to express your concern and request. It's important to avoid accusing, blaming, or criticizing your coworker, as this can make them angry or resistant. Additionally, it's best to avoid being passive, vague, or apologetic, as this can make them ignore or dismiss your message. Instead, use "I" statements to describe how you feel and what you need; open-ended questions to invite your coworker to share their perspective; and active listening to show that you are paying attention and understanding their point of view. For example, say "I feel unsafe when you don't wear your helmet" rather than "You are breaking the safety rules". Ask "What are the challenges you face in following this policy?" rather than "Do you know this policy?". Show active listening by nodding, making eye contact, and paraphrasing what they say like "So you feel that this policy is too rigid and unrealistic?".