Your coaching client feels undervalued. How can you ensure they feel heard and respected?
When your coaching client feels undervalued, it's crucial to create a supportive environment where they feel genuinely heard and respected. Here are some tangible strategies to ensure your client feels appreciated:
How do you ensure your clients feel valued? Share your strategies.
Your coaching client feels undervalued. How can you ensure they feel heard and respected?
When your coaching client feels undervalued, it's crucial to create a supportive environment where they feel genuinely heard and respected. Here are some tangible strategies to ensure your client feels appreciated:
How do you ensure your clients feel valued? Share your strategies.
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To help a client feeling undervalued, actively listen, validate their experiences, and show empathy. Reflect their words to affirm you understand, ask open-ended questions, and acknowledge their emotions. Reinforce their strengths and contributions to build confidence. This approach ensures they feel genuinely heard, valued, and empowered to reframe and address their challenges.
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As a coach, I once worked with a software developer who felt undervalued at work. Here’s what I did: First, I actively listened to their concerns without interrupting. Then, I validated their feelings, letting them know it’s okay to feel this way. Together, we mapped out their achievements and contributions to build their confidence. I guided them on how to have honest, constructive conversations with their manager about their role and impact. By focusing on their strengths and aligning their goals with the team’s vision, they regained confidence and felt heard. Remember, respect starts with listening and empowering them to take charge of their narrative!
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Dr. Christi Turley Diamond
Naturopathic Doctor @ Healing Acres Wellness Center | Relationship Expert
In coaching couples and individuals, I always teach that listening with curiosity helps to bring awareness and understanding of what is going on. When you listen in curiosity, you are listening to learn rather than listening to correct or react. So I would practice what I preach and listen with curiosity and mirror back what I heard them say so that I'm clear on what they are conveying and they are feeling heard and seen. I would then create a supportive environment that would help them feel valued and respected.
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If a client feels undervalued, start with active listening. Feeling heard lights up the brain’s reward center, increasing trust. Picture a corporate scene: a skilled team member’s ideas are overlooked, leading to disengagement, 70% of employees disengage when they feel unappreciated (Gallup). A sprinkle of humor? "Listening is cheaper than a raise!" Acknowledge their contributions, explore specific feedback, and align their skills with meaningful tasks. As leadership guru John Maxwell said, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” Action time: schedule a check-in and reinforce their value today!
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An undervalued client can lose motivation and trust. How do you ensure they feel genuinely heard, respected, and empowered in your coaching journey? Practice Active Listening: Give your full attention, summarize their concerns, and validate their emotions. They show that their voice matters foster trust and strengthen the coaching relationship. Recognize Their Contributions: Highlight their strengths, progress, and unique qualities. Regularly affirming their value boosts confidence and reinforces their sense of worth. By listening deeply and celebrating their strengths, you can turn feelings of undervalue into empowerment, building a lasting and impactful connection.
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