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What strategies can you use to help your mentee develop self-acceptance?

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Self-acceptance is the ability to embrace yourself as you are, without judging or rejecting any aspect of your identity, personality, or appearance. It is a crucial component of mental health, happiness, and self-esteem. As a life coach, you may encounter mentees who struggle with self-acceptance, and who may benefit from your guidance and support. In this article, we will explore some strategies that you can use to help your mentee develop self-acceptance and improve their well-being.

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1 Identify the sources of self-criticism

One of the first steps to help your mentee develop self-acceptance is to identify the sources of their self-criticism. Self-criticism is the tendency to focus on one's flaws, mistakes, and shortcomings, and to evaluate oneself harshly or negatively. Self-criticism can stem from various factors, such as childhood experiences, social expectations, cultural norms, or personal beliefs. By helping your mentee to recognize and understand the origins of their self-criticism, you can help them to challenge and reframe their negative thoughts and feelings.

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Jeryl Orsino

ICF Certified Professional Leadership Coach | Master Personal Trainer | Keynote Speaker | Teamwork Development Coach | JPGA and Adult Golf Coach | BS,CPC, CLDS,ELI-MP | Superhero ????♀?
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Self acceptance starts with self awareness and gratitude. Nothing really works without these two things. Depending on their personality, some mentees may have a more difficult time with self awareness. Success in helping someone is they have to be coachable.

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Dr. Abimbola Olayinka

Parenting| Leadership| EQ Coach | Member, Forbes Business Council. John Maxwell Team member. I equip leaders at home and work with peaceful tools to navigate life and work challenges with peace of mind.
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So, I developed a Framework called " Peaceful Living Framework for Individuals, Parents and Leaders". It's a complete science based tool that alters negative perception and allows us to function maximally in this chaotic world. I use it on a daily basis for Intervention purposes.

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Arline Davis
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One really incredible frame to work with is: you are neither your behavior nor your results. And we are definitely not our expectations of ourself. "You are so much more." Separating identity from behavior and results has a powerful effect.

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Marie Lou Mella

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An effective and immediate way to identify areas of self-criticism is to sit in complete silence in a peaceful place and start to observe in a non-judgmental way all of the thoughts that enter the mind. As we become the observer, we become more self-aware of our negative self-talk and can start addressing the root cause of these thoughts. It is important to identify the source of our beliefs and past conditioning in order to unlearn and replace these beliefs with positive, constructive ones.

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Hein van der Merwe

Certified & Registered Coach (Level Up Life Coaching); Business Operations & Marketing (Humefert Manufacturing).
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Instead of criticizing, talk positively to yourself. Instead of focusing on flaws and mistakes, rather focus on finding solutions and opportunities unique to your situation.

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2 Practice self-compassion

Another strategy to help your mentee develop self-acceptance is to practice self-compassion. Self-compassion is the ability to treat oneself with kindness, empathy, and understanding, especially when facing difficulties, failures, or suffering. Self-compassion can help your mentee to cope with negative emotions, to reduce stress and anxiety, and to increase their confidence and motivation. You can help your mentee to practice self-compassion by encouraging them to speak to themselves as they would speak to a friend, to acknowledge and validate their feelings, and to remember that they are not alone in their struggles.

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Dr. Abimbola Olayinka

Parenting| Leadership| EQ Coach | Member, Forbes Business Council. John Maxwell Team member. I equip leaders at home and work with peaceful tools to navigate life and work challenges with peace of mind.
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If you don't know yourself, you cannot manage yourself. There is no self acceptance without self awareness and there is no self acceptance without Inner Peace.

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3 Celebrate strengths and achievements

A third strategy to help your mentee develop self-acceptance is to celebrate their strengths and achievements. Often, people who lack self-acceptance tend to overlook or downplay their positive qualities, skills, and accomplishments, and to focus on their weaknesses and failures. This can lead to low self-esteem, low self-efficacy, and low satisfaction. You can help your mentee to celebrate their strengths and achievements by helping them to identify and appreciate their unique talents, abilities, and contributions, by praising and rewarding their efforts and progress, and by encouraging them to set and pursue realistic and meaningful goals.

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Marie Lou Mella

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In the journey of self-acceptance and self-love, we can find a gentle balance between recognizing our weaknesses and areas of improvement, while praising ourselves for our accomplishments and talents. By switching our mindset from "I am not good enough" to "I've done the best I can today and tomorrow, I will keep improving", we condition ourselves to believe in continuous improvement instead of feeding any limiting beliefs.

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4 Explore values and purpose

A fourth strategy to help your mentee develop self-acceptance is to explore their values and purpose. Values are the principles that guide one's actions and decisions, and that reflect one's beliefs, preferences, and aspirations. Purpose is the sense of meaning and direction that one derives from one's values, goals, and passions. Exploring one's values and purpose can help your mentee to discover and express their authentic self, to align their choices with their core needs and desires, and to find fulfillment and joy in their life. You can help your mentee to explore their values and purpose by asking them open-ended questions, by facilitating reflection and introspection, and by supporting them to pursue their passions and interests.

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5 Cultivate gratitude and positivity

A fifth strategy to help your mentee develop self-acceptance is to cultivate gratitude and positivity. Gratitude is the feeling of appreciation and thankfulness for the good things in one's life, whether they are big or small, internal or external, past or present. Positivity is the attitude of optimism and hopefulness, and the ability to focus on the bright side of any situation. Cultivating gratitude and positivity can help your mentee to enhance their mood and well-being, to reduce negativity and resentment, and to increase their happiness and satisfaction. You can help your mentee to cultivate gratitude and positivity by inviting them to keep a gratitude journal, by sharing positive affirmations and feedback, and by engaging them in enjoyable and uplifting activities.

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6 Seek feedback and support

A sixth strategy to help your mentee develop self-acceptance is to seek feedback and support. Feedback is the information and advice that one receives from others, whether it is positive or constructive, formal or informal, solicited or unsolicited. Support is the assistance and encouragement that one receives from others, whether it is emotional, practical, informational, or motivational. Seeking feedback and support can help your mentee to improve their performance and skills, to learn from their mistakes and challenges, and to feel valued and connected. You can help your mentee to seek feedback and support by providing them with honest and respectful feedback, by offering them your guidance and resources, and by connecting them with other mentors, peers, or professionals who can help them grow and thrive.

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7 Here’s what else to consider

This is a space to share examples, stories, or insights that don’t fit into any of the previous sections. What else would you like to add?

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Chiradeep Patra

ICF - CCE Certified Life Coach | Resilient Coach | Podcaster | Published Author & Writing Coach | Top Life Coaching Voice | Founder of 'I LISTEN'.
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Assessment and Relationship Building Process are the foremost and this is how I do it. 1. Thorough Exploration: In the first session, I ask in-depth questions about their life and emotions, guiding them through any discomfort. 2. Mirror Reflection: After the initial session, I summarize my assessment and present it to the client in the second session for confirmation. 3. Tailored Approach: Once confirmed, I use tools like CBT charts and questionnaires to address their specific needs and goals. Once they see themselves through their own assessment about who they are while doing regular journaling and filling in the charts I provide they tend to identify their strengths. They slowly get the urge to accept themselves. Bingo!

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1 Identify the sources of self-criticism

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3 Celebrate strengths and achievements

4 Explore values and purpose

5 Cultivate gratitude and positivity

6 Seek feedback and support

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1 Identify the sources of self-criticism

2 Practice self-compassion

3 Celebrate strengths and achievements

4 Explore values and purpose

5 Cultivate gratitude and positivity

6 Seek feedback and support

7 Here’s what else to consider

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