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How can you use silence and pauses to your advantage when answering tough questions?

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Answering tough questions can be challenging, especially when you are presenting to an audience that may be skeptical, critical, or hostile. You may feel pressured to respond quickly and confidently, but that can backfire if you are not prepared, clear, or credible. In this article, you will learn how to use silence and pauses to your advantage when answering tough questions, and how they can help you improve your presentation skills.

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Jamal K, ACA

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1 Why silence and pauses matter

Silence and pauses are powerful tools that can enhance your communication, influence, and persuasion. They can help you create interest, suspense, and curiosity in your audience, as well as signal confidence, authority, and respect. Silence and pauses can also give you time to think, process, and formulate your answer, as well as to check your emotions, tone, and body language. By using silence and pauses strategically, you can avoid common pitfalls such as rambling, stuttering, contradicting, or offending your audience.

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Additionally silence and pauses can put pressure on your counterpart so that they feel the urge or need to talk more e.g. explain their question or thoughts. This brings more insight into their thinking which is always valuable

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2 How to use silence before answering

When you are asked a tough question, do not rush to answer immediately. Instead, take a moment to pause and breathe. This will show your audience that you are listening, that you are not afraid, and that you are considering your answer carefully. It will also give you a chance to clarify the question, if needed, or to ask a follow-up question, if appropriate. For example, you can say "That's a good question. Can you please elaborate on what you mean by..." or "That's an interesting point. How did you come to that conclusion?". This will help you understand the question better, as well as to engage your audience and to show your interest.

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Silence is a powerful tool in handling tough questions, particularly in high-stakes environments like investor pitches. This brief moment of silence allows them to process the question and formulate a coherent answer, rather than giving a hasty, potentially less effective response. It also demonstrates active listening and respect for the questioner's perspective. I often advise using this pause to reframe or clarify the question, which not only aids in providing a more accurate answer but also engages the audience.

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3 How to use pauses during answering

When you are answering a tough question, do not speak in a monotonous or fast-paced manner. Instead, use pauses to emphasize your key points, to transition between ideas, and to invite feedback. Pauses can help you structure your answer, to make it clear, concise, and coherent. They can also help you reinforce your message, to make it memorable, impactful, and persuasive. For example, you can say "The main reason why we chose this approach is... (pause) because it offers the best value for our customers... (pause) and it aligns with our vision and mission... (pause) Do you agree?". This will help you deliver your answer with confidence, clarity, and conviction.

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4 How to use silence after answering

When you have finished answering a tough question, do not fill the silence with filler words, such as "um", "ah", or "you know". Instead, let the silence speak for itself. This will show your audience that you are confident in your answer, that you are not defensive or apologetic, and that you are open to feedback. It will also give your audience time to digest your answer, to ask follow-up questions, or to express their opinions. For example, you can say "That's how we address this challenge... (silence) Any questions or comments?". This will help you end your answer with a strong and positive impression.

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Instructing founders on handling post-answer silence is crucial, especially in investor interactions. After responding to a tough question, I advise them to resist the urge to fill the silence with unnecessary words. Instead, embrace the quiet. This demonstrates confidence in their answer and signals they’re neither defensive nor seeking approval. It allows the audience, particularly investors, time to absorb and reflect on the response, inviting further discussion or questions. For instance, ending with 'That's our approach to this challenge...' followed by a pause, then 'Any questions or comments?' leaves a strong, confident impression and encourages open dialogue

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5 How to avoid overusing silence and pauses

While silence and pauses can be beneficial, they can also be detrimental if you overuse them or use them inappropriately. You do not want to appear hesitant, nervous, or rude by using too much silence or too long pauses. You also do not want to lose your audience's attention, interest, or respect by using silence or pauses that are irrelevant, awkward, or disrespectful. To avoid these pitfalls, you need to use silence and pauses judiciously, and to adapt them to your audience, context, and purpose. For example, you can use shorter pauses for simple or factual questions, and longer pauses for complex or controversial questions. You can also use non-verbal cues, such as eye contact, facial expressions, or gestures, to communicate your intention and emotion when using silence or pauses.

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Marcus Konitzny, PMP

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Still, not using silence or pauses does not mean you have to talk. You have to fulfill your role as a counterpart in the conversation but that is not necessarily done by talking. A grunting here, an "aha" there, a strategic "really?" or "and then?" will keep your counterpart talking and you silent without useing pauses or silence :-)

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6 How to practice using silence and pauses

The best way to master the use of silence and pauses is to practice them regularly and intentionally. You can practice them in different situations, such as in conversations, meetings, or interviews, as well as in different formats, such as in person, online, or on the phone. You can also practice them with different audiences, such as with friends, colleagues, or clients, as well as with different types of questions, such as with easy, hard, or tricky questions. You can also record yourself, watch yourself, or ask for feedback to evaluate your performance and to improve your skills. By practicing using silence and pauses, you will become more comfortable, confident, and effective in answering tough questions.

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