As a servant leader, you need to develop and practice some key listening skills in order to overcome the barriers and listen better. Paying attention and being present, asking open-ended questions and clarifying, paraphrasing and summarizing, reflecting and empathizing, and giving feedback and appreciation are all essential skills that can help you do this. Showing interest and respect through your body language and eye contact is important, as is asking questions that invite the speaker to elaborate. Repeating or rephrasing what the speaker has said in your own words, summarizing the main points or messages, expressing or mirroring back what the speaker is feeling or needing, and showing empathy and compassion for their situation or emotions are all ways to show that you have understood and that you care. Additionally, it's important to give constructive and honest feedback that can help the speaker improve or learn, as well as show appreciation and gratitude for their contribution.