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Dealing with skeptical clients during coaching sessions. Can you turn doubt into trust?

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As a personal coach, you're bound to encounter skepticism from clients. It's a natural response, especially when individuals are about to embark on a transformative journey. Skepticism can stem from past disappointments, fear of change, or a lack of understanding of the coaching process. However, it presents an opportunity to build a foundation of trust that can lead to a fruitful coaching relationship. By embracing empathy, patience, and effective communication, you can guide clients from doubt to trust, setting the stage for meaningful progress.

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Jeremy Guttenplan, MBA, PCC

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Hazel Maria Spain ?? ICF ACC

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Atchuthan Carvalho

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1 Understand Doubt

It's crucial to recognize that skepticism isn't inherently negative. When clients express doubt, they're often seeking assurance and clarity. Listen actively to their concerns without judgment and validate their feelings. This understanding creates a safe space for clients to express themselves and signals that you're attuned to their needs. By acknowledging their skepticism as a valid part of the coaching process, you foster an environment of mutual respect, which is the first step in transforming doubt into trust.

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Hazel Maria Spain ?? ICF ACC

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I think seeking to understand what is behind the doubt is the first step. Listening and clarifying what they are unsure about will help you to empathise and understand what the problem might be. It might be they are not ready for coaching just yet. It might be they are worried or had a bad experience that needs reassuring. You wont know until you take time to ask.

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Mercedes Yasuko Kedjora-Founder

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When dealing with skeptical clients, turning doubt into trust begins with understanding their concerns and building a strong rapport. Acknowledge their doubts openly and show empathy towards their perspectives. Listen actively to their concerns without interruption, demonstrating genuine interest and understanding. Share relevant success stories and case studies that highlight the positive outcomes of your work with similar clients. Be transparent about your processes, addressing any questions or uncertainties they may have. By consistently delivering value and maintaining clear, honest communication, you can gradually transform skepticism into trust, showcasing your commitment to their success.

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Trina Colomé

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Es una actitud que no acepta cuestionamientos ni ofrece evidencias respecto de lo que acepta o defiende. De hecho, el dogmatismo defendía la capacidad de la razón humana para conocer la verdad. El escepticismo critica al dogmatismo porque este no puede justificar las ideas de las que parte su pensamiento. En las organizaciones, empresas existen un porcentaje del RRHH, que aplica ese método como una figura de escudo o sea es una actitud negativa porque eso no los llevará a escalar posición en la empresa.

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Maik Hellen

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Um mit skeptischen Klienten umzugehen und Zweifel in Vertrauen zu verwandeln, ist es wichtig, zun?chst ihre Bedenken zu verstehen. H?ren Sie aktiv zu, um ihre Sorgen ernst zu nehmen. Bauen Sie eine starke Beziehung auf, indem Sie Empathie zeigen und Vertrauen aufbauen. Kl?ren Sie gemeinsam die Ziele, um eine klare Richtung festzulegen. Demonstrieren Sie den Wert des Coachings durch kleine Erfolge oder Fortschritte. Ermutigen Sie den Klienten, Fragen zu stellen, um ihre Unsicherheiten zu adressieren. Reflektieren Sie regelm??ig den Fortschritt, um Vertrauen in die Wirksamkeit des Prozesses zu st?rken. So entwickeln Sie eine positive Coaching-Dynamik.

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Itinerant Coach German Herran

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El escepticismo forma parte del caracter humano y todos somos escepticos de alguna materia. Creo que la mejor manera de abordar el escepticismo de un cliente es con demostraciones, explicaciones y mucho entusiasmo. Lo mejor que podemos hacer es reconocer ese escepticismo como un gran reto a abordar para nuestra profesion como coach.

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2 Build Rapport

Building rapport with clients is like laying the foundation for a strong building; it's essential for everything that follows. Start by sharing your coaching philosophy and how it aligns with their goals. Personalize your approach to reflect their values and preferences. Small gestures, such as remembering personal details or following up on previous conversations, can go a long way in showing clients that you care about them as individuals. As rapport strengthens, skepticism often fades, replaced by a growing sense of partnership and trust.

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Jeremy Guttenplan, MBA, PCC

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TRUST is the key to any coaching relationship. If you are a client who says you want coaching but don't trust your coach, then that means you either (1) aren't actually ready to do the work, or (2) have the wrong coach. Or both. On the side of the coach, you should be adept at building trust with your clients. This of course means being fully present, taking good notes (or recording and taking notes later), and meeting them where they are. Any "skepticism" will wane over time as trust grows deeper. And note that this doesn't necessarily mean being "nice". A good coach will challenge the client's worldview in numerous ways. If time goes by and the client continues to not respond, then question whether they should remain a client.

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Bernd Klein
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Um eine vertrauensvolle Beziehung zum Klienten aufzubauen, ist es wichtig, von Anfang an offen und transparent über die Ziele, Erwartungen des Klienten und die eigene Philosophie sowie Vorgehensweise im Coaching zu sprechen. Es ist entscheidend, den Klienten nicht zu dr?ngen, sondern ihm v?llige Freiheit bei der Wahl und dem Zeitpunkt seiner Entscheidungen zu lassen. So entsteht eine vertrauensvolle Basis.

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Christina Heystek

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What I found in my Compassion Biz community is that we all need to belong. This is core to everything we long for. Determine the underlying reason the person joined. As you chat, make a note of the struggles they’re experiencing. If you care, they’ll trust you more. You can’t fake caring. Authenticity is the way to being trusted.

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Sylvie E.

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Dès le premier RDV, j'aborde avec transparence mon approche du coaching et je la partage avec mon client pour m'assurer que nous allons pouvoir créer cette alliance nécessaire au processus. Je pense que la posture du coach est également importante : présence, savoir danser avec le moment, humilité, authenticité permettent de laisser place à une vraie relation de partenariat dans laquelle tout ce qui est là pour le client peut être déposé au bénéfice de l'objectif du client.

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Miguel ángel Sevilla

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Building a good relationship with clients is fundamental to success in coaching. Just like the foundation of a solid building, a strong relationship sets the stage for everything that follows. It is crucial to share the coaching philosophy and demonstrate how it aligns with the client's personal goals :)

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3 Clarify Goals

For skeptical clients, unclear goals can be a significant source of uncertainty. Work collaboratively to define clear, achievable objectives that resonate with them. Use the SMART criteria—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound—to help clients understand what they're working towards. When clients have a concrete understanding of their goals and the steps required to achieve them, they're more likely to trust the process and commit to the coaching relationship.

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Bernd Klein
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Ein entscheidender Faktor für erfolgreiches Coaching ist, absolute Zielklarheit herzustellen und eine hohe Glaubwürdigkeit beim Erreichen dieser Ziele zu entwickeln. Auch die Festlegung erreichbarer Teilziele und die Beschreibung des Weges tragen dazu bei, dass der Glaube des Klienten an die erreichbaren Ziele gest?rkt wird.

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Sylvie E.

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Aider le client à définir son objectif est indéniablement la première étape de tout processus. Les critères SMART sont naturellement une base mais me semblent insuffisants. Lors de la détermination de l'objectif, il me parait important de mesurer le but visé et la motivation à la réalisation de l'objectif. De même, questionner sur l'écologie de l'objectif permet également de mesurer les obstacles potentiels : Dépend- il que du client ? Quel inconvénient (ou pas) à atteindre cet objectif ? Pour le client et pour son entourage ? quel est le prix à payer (inconfort, risque, abandon de quelque chose) ?) . Enfin, ne pas oublier d'identifier les ressources nécessaires pour atteindre l'objectif.

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Miguel ángel Sevilla

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For skeptical clients, unclear goals often create uncertainty. It is crucial to recognize that in the initial stages, there may be a misconception that SMART goals are "easy" to understand. Therefore, it is essential to take the time to ensure that the client (whether individual or organizational) fully understands the framework and structure of the goals. This clarity reduces confusion and builds confidence in the process.

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4 Demonstrate Value

To turn doubt into trust, it's important to demonstrate the tangible value of your coaching. Share examples of how coaching has helped others without breaching confidentiality. Explain your methods and tools, and how they contribute to personal growth. When clients see the potential impact of coaching on their lives, their skepticism may give way to curiosity and openness. This shift is critical in establishing trust and encouraging clients to fully engage with the coaching process.

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Atchuthan Carvalho

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Turning a skeptical client into a believer is a bit like convincing someone to try pineapple on pizza—once they see the value, they're hooked! ???? Start by demonstrating your expertise with clear, relatable examples and success stories. Share tangible results from past clients, showcasing how your methods have led to real, positive changes. Be genuinely curious about their doubts and address them with empathy and patience. For example, if they doubt the effectiveness of mindfulness, explain the science behind it and share how it helped someone in a similar situation. ??Finally, offer small, low-risk "experiments" to test your techniques. A little success here and there can build trust faster than a thousand words.

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Bernd Klein
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Um den Wert eines Coachings für den Coachee deutlich zu machen, ist es wichtig, den Nutzen und die Wirkung eines erfolgreichen Coachings zu verdeutlichen. Das Verh?ltnis von Einsatz und der Chance auf eine h?here Lebensqualit?t bei Erreichung der Ziele zeigt den langfristigen Wert eines Coachings auf.

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Pour lever le scepticisme, il est essentiel que le coaching soit personnalisé.Pour cela le coach ne peut pas avoir trop de clients. Cela lui permet de se consacrer pleinement à chaque client car Il est important que le coach puisse prendre du recul après chaque session pour repenser à ce qui a été dit. Les bonnes questions ou les idées pertinentes ne viennent pas toujours immédiatement. Il faut parfois du temps pour la réflexion pour qu’elles émergent. Une méthode efficace est d'enregistrer les séances ou de relire les notes à tête reposée. Cela permet au coach de préparer au mieux la séance suivante en restant en cohésion avec le coaché, assurant ainsi un suivi de qualité, une progression continue et donc un lien de confiance puissant.

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5 Encourage Questions

Encourage your clients to ask questions about anything they're uncertain about. This openness shows that you have nothing to hide and that you welcome their active participation in the coaching process. Answer their questions with honesty and patience, providing as much detail as necessary to alleviate their concerns. When clients feel heard and informed, they're more likely to trust your expertise and the coaching journey ahead.

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Bernd Klein
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Schon im ersten Gespr?ch sollte der Kunde ermutigt werden, alle Fragen zu stellen. Es sollten keine Tabus bestehen, denn je klarer die Fragen beantwortet werden, desto mehr steigt die Sicherheit des Coachees, den richtigen Coach und das passende Produkt gew?hlt zu haben. Anhand der Fragen kann der Coach zudem viele Bedenken, Unsicherheiten oder Beweggründe für das Coaching erkennen.

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Sylvie E.

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Le RDV d'informations doit permettre au client de poser toutes les questions qui lui viennent car c'est sur la base de nos réponses qu'il va identifier si l'approche du coach est celle qui lui correspond. Elles permettent aussi au coach de savoir s'il pourra être en capacité de répondre aux attentes et besoins du client. il est de la responsabilité du coach que de savoir éventuellement réorienté le client s'il ne pense pas être la bonne personne pour l'accompagner.

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6 Reflect Progress

As clients progress through coaching sessions, take time to reflect on the milestones they've achieved. Positive reinforcement can be a powerful tool in converting skepticism to trust. Highlighting their successes helps clients see the value in the work they're doing and reinforces the effectiveness of the coaching process. This reflection not only boosts their confidence but also solidifies their trust in you as their coach.

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