You're struggling to communicate with your boss. How can you avoid overstepping your bounds?

2 Be clear and concise

When you communicate with your boss, you want to be clear and concise. Avoid vague or ambiguous language, and get to the point quickly. Don't overload them with unnecessary details or information that they already know. Use simple and direct words, and avoid jargon or acronyms that they may not understand. If you need to communicate something complex or technical, use visuals or examples to help them grasp it. Also, make sure you proofread your emails or messages before sending them, and check for spelling, grammar, and tone errors.

3 Listen and ask questions

Communication is not only about talking, but also about listening. When you communicate with your boss, you want to show that you're attentive and respectful of what they have to say. Listen actively, and avoid interrupting or jumping to conclusions. Ask questions to clarify or confirm what you heard, and to show your interest and engagement. Repeat or summarize the main points to ensure that you understood correctly, and to avoid misunderstandings or miscommunication.

4 Be respectful and professional

Even if you have a good relationship with your boss, you still need to maintain a respectful and professional tone when you communicate with them. Avoid using slang, sarcasm, or humor that may be inappropriate or offensive. Don't criticize or complain about your boss or your colleagues in front of them, or behind their back. Don't make assumptions or accusations that may damage your trust or credibility. Don't use communication as a way to vent or express your emotions, but rather as a way to solve problems or share ideas.

5 Choose the right time and channel

Timing and channel are also important factors when you communicate with your boss. You want to choose the right time and channel for your message, depending on its urgency, importance, and complexity. For example, if you need to communicate something urgent or critical, you may want to call or meet your boss in person, rather than sending an email or a text. If you need to communicate something simple or routine, you may want to use email or chat, rather than interrupting your boss's schedule or workflow. Also, consider your boss's availability and preferences, and avoid contacting them when they're busy, off-duty, or on vacation.

7 Here’s what else to consider

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