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Your peers are unaware of your support boundaries. How can you effectively navigate misunderstandings?

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In the realm of peer support, it's crucial to establish clear boundaries to maintain a healthy working environment and personal well-being. However, sometimes your peers may not be aware of these limits, leading to misunderstandings. You might find yourself overextended or uncomfortable with the level of support you're being asked to provide. To navigate this delicate situation effectively, it’s important to communicate your boundaries clearly, recalibrate expectations, and find a balance that works for everyone involved.

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Madhavi P.

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Ashley Prior FCIHT

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1 Set Boundaries

When your peers are unaware of your support boundaries, the first step is to define them clearly for yourself. Understand what you are willing to offer in terms of time, energy, and emotional support. Once you have a clear idea, communicate these limits to your peers in a respectful and assertive manner. It's essential to be direct yet empathetic, ensuring that your message is understood without harming the working relationship. Remember, setting boundaries is not just about saying no; it's about creating a sustainable framework for mutual support.

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Madhavi P.

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I believe this is extremely important. As someone who would go above and beyond for others, there were and still are days when I forget to prioritize myself. It's important to draw clear boundaries and let others know about your availability.

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Ashley Prior FCIHT

Former Head of Highway Services
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Like many people I took part in Myers-Briggs assessments and similar personality reviews and we discussed the outcomes in some detail. I don’t think we ever really nailed what it meant for how we interacted with each other. Towards the end of my career I realised I was neuro-diverse ( as is the new term) and it made sense of my earlier experiences when I had struggled with other’s’ interpretations of events and planned actions. I think I had traits of autism which made me highly effective in some areas but I found lengthy meetings with little action and general prevarication hard to comprehend. I think detailed follow up to personal assessments would be highly useful but leadership teams must readily accept true diversity across the team.

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Aayushree Kalyani GMBPsS

Trauma Informed | MSc Investigative & Forensic Psychology @University of Liverpool | ex trainee counsellor under supervision | Learning to break the cycle and live boldly.
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It's essential to protect your energy and well-being, but you also want to maintain positive relationships. Start by defining your limits clearly for yourself. Understand what you can comfortably offer in terms of time, emotional support, and availability. Once you have a solid grasp on your boundaries, communicate them assertively and respectfully to your peers. It's about striking a balance between being supportive and preserving your own space. Remember, saying no isn't selfish; it's self-care. By setting clear expectations, you're actually fostering healthier and more sustainable

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2 Open Dialogue

Maintaining an open dialogue is key to preventing and resolving misunderstandings about your support boundaries. Encourage regular check-ins with your peers where everyone can voice their expectations and any concerns they may have. This proactive approach allows for adjustments to be made before any issues escalate. By fostering a culture of open communication, you create a safe space for discussing support needs and boundaries without fear of judgment or reprisal.

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Aayushree Kalyani GMBPsS

Trauma Informed | MSc Investigative & Forensic Psychology @University of Liverpool | ex trainee counsellor under supervision | Learning to break the cycle and live boldly.
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Open communication is the cornerstone of healthy relationships, including peer support networks. Regular check-ins create a space where everyone can express their needs, concerns, and expectations without fear of judgment. By fostering a culture of open dialogue, you prevent misunderstandings from festering and create an environment where adjustments can be made proactively. It's about building trust and mutual respect within the group. When everyone feels heard and valued, it's easier to navigate challenges and maintain healthy boundaries. Remember, open dialogue isn't just about talking; it's about active listening. Pay close attention to what your peers are saying, both verbally and non-verbally.

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Madhavi P.

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This goes for everything. Every situation we come across. Always communicating clearly about what we feel and think is of utmost importance to actually set boundaries

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3 Seek Clarification

If a peer oversteps your boundaries, seek clarification immediately. It's possible that the misunderstanding arose from a lack of information or miscommunication. Approach the conversation with a mindset of seeking to understand rather than to confront. Ask questions to clarify their expectations and explain your own boundaries once more. This can often resolve the issue promptly and reinforce your limits moving forward.

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4 Offer Alternatives

When you encounter a situation where your support boundaries are being tested, it's helpful to offer alternatives. If you're unable to provide the level of support requested, suggest other resources or individuals who might be able to assist. This shows that you still care about your peer's needs while adhering to your own limits. Offering alternatives can also help your peers understand that while you have boundaries, you are still a supportive and valuable member of the team.

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5 Reinforce Positively

Reinforcing your boundaries positively can help mitigate misunderstandings. Acknowledge and thank your peers when they respect your limits, and be consistent in upholding them yourself. Positive reinforcement encourages a respectful and understanding work environment. It also serves as a subtle reminder of your support framework, making it more likely that your peers will remember and adhere to your boundaries in the future.

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6 Self-Care Priority

Lastly, prioritize self-care to ensure that you can continue to provide support without burning out. When your peers are unaware of your support boundaries, it can lead to stress and fatigue, which affects your ability to help others effectively. By taking care of your physical and emotional health, you set an example for others and reinforce the importance of respecting personal limits for the sake of everyone's well-being.

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7 Here’s what else to consider

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1 Set Boundaries

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4 Offer Alternatives

5 Reinforce Positively

6 Self-Care Priority

7 Here’s what else to consider

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