When comparing different FEM methods, you should consider criteria that reflect your problem characteristics and desired outcomes. Accuracy, for example, can be measured by comparing the FEM results with analytical solutions or experimental data. Efficiency can be measured by comparing the computational time, memory usage, and convergence rate of the FEM methods. To evaluate robustness, you can test the FEM methods for different scenarios, boundary conditions, and parameters. Flexibility can be measured by evaluating the FEM methods for different types of problems, geometries, materials, and loads. By considering these criteria, you can determine which FEM method best meets your needs.