What do you do if your fear of failure is holding you back in your business coaching career?

Ever felt fear grip your heart in your coaching journey? Acknowledge it. Fear of failure isn't your enemy.. it’s the unseen mentor guiding you towards unmatched growth. Start by: - Identifying fear’s roots.. turn obstacles into milestones. - Welcoming vulnerability as a strength. - Reframing failure as feedback, not defeat. - Taking action, small steps at a time, to silence doubts. Your greatest growth lies just beyond fear’s shadow. How has facing your fears reshaped your path?

When I first started my business coaching practice fear of failure and imposture syndrome were big roadblocks for me. Becoming aware of them and being able to talk about them helped. The biggest change came when I was able to give them names and realize who was talking to me (Frannie) when I was thinking the fearful thoughts. Transferring the fear to Frannie helped me acknowledge it and talk about it with her. I would write down everything Frannie said; all of her worries and concerns, all of her inadequacies and doubts. Getting it all out of my head and onto paper felt like such a relief. Because it was. These were the first steps to working on them and feeling more confident in my coaching practice.

Reframing failure is one of the greatest strategies for succeeding in business and in life. You don't have to adopt society's definition. You can create your own. My personal favorite, is "There's no failure, only feedback." Failure is for you whatever you say it is. For me, failure is giving up. Come up with your own definition for what it means for you and don't let anyone else apply their definition to you. No one has crystal ball for seeing the future. What looks like a setback today can take on the look of a blessing tomorrow. When something looks like a failure today, it's time to look for the silver lining and ask, "How could this actually be a gift?" or "How can this help me get even better?"

Caught in the fear of failure? Shift your view. In the coaching realm, every misstep is a masterclass in disguise. Here’s how: 1- Ask yourself, 'In what scenario could this outcome be beneficial?' This shifts your perspective to see potential positive outcomes. 2- Change the meaning you attach to failure. Instead of seeing it as a personal flaw, view it as an opportunity for learning and growth. 3- Focus on the desired outcome. What can you learn from this situation to move closer to your goal next time? Viewing failure as a stepping stone rather than a setback can revolutionize your approach. How has redefining failure fueled your coaching success?

The existing relationship with failure may have different root causes. ? Should you want to explore this route, you can either work with a coach on your own or answer the following: 1. When was the first time I heard about failure? 2. Who were the people experiencing failure back then? 3. What was their perspective on failure (i.e. what did they say or do)? 4. Which of those messages I'm reusing now in relationship with failure? 5. What do I need now/choose to do going further?

Imagine setting a goal and knowing that, no matter what happens, you'll gain valuable experience! That's the power of my Holistic Leadership Success Blueprint. Here's how I use the Blueprint with clients: 1. Plan A: Ideal Outcome: This is the pinnacle of success for the client. 2. Plan B: Contingency plan: This kicks in when Plan A is unattainable, promting my client to pivot towards something still valuable as an outcome. 3. Plan C: Safety Net plan: If both Plan A and B fall short, Plan C shifts focus to ensure a succesfull outcome, defined by the clients conscious choice in the moment This approach allows for multiple paths to success, is focused on learning and provides an empowering mindset.

Great leaders need to be led. Great coaches need to be coached. In almost 20-years of entrepreneurship, I'd pretty much always had a coach (sometimes several) on the go. Why? Because they make me a better person, biz owner… and coach. Nowadays I spend about half of the time I'm 'at work' coaching other entrepreneurs - and I love every minute. But, that doesn't mean I rest on my laurels. In fact, if anything, nowadays I'm working harder at getting better, as a coach specifically, than I ever have. So, if you're in a rut, if you feels stuck, or fear creepin' up on you… get a coach!

Overwhelmed by the fear of failure? It’s time to lean on the power of support. Surrounding yourself with a network of mentors, peers, and professionals can turn your fear into fuel. Consider these actions: - Join professional coaching networks or forums. - Find a mentor who has navigated similar challenges. - Engage in peer coaching to share experiences and strategies. - Seek feedback, not as criticism, but as growth opportunities. Support systems provide perspective, encouragement, and actionable advice, making the path forward clearer and less intimidating. How has seeking support transformed your approach to fear and failure?

Feeling paralyzed by the fear of failure? Embrace self-compassion. It's your secret weapon in transforming fear into a pathway for growth. Here's a concise guide: - Treat yourself with the kindness you’d offer a friend. - Remember, experiencing setbacks is a universal part of the human experience. - Use gentle self-talk to navigate tough moments. - Celebrate small victories on your journey towards overcoming fear. Self-compassion not only softens the blow of failure but also opens the door to genuine self-improvement and resilience. How has treating yourself kindly changed your perspective on failure?

Flip the script on failure by treating it as a mentor, not a monster. In the coaching biz, self-compassion is your secret weapon. It’s not about coddling yourself—it’s strategic resilience. Mistakes? They’re just plot twists in your success story. Remember, the most inspiring coaches are those who’ve navigated their own storms with grace. Let's normalize embracing our imperfections and transform our setbacks into comebacks. Who's with me?

Visualizing success is more than just daydreaming; it's about programming your subconscious for victory. Ever noticed how athletes visualize their wins? They're onto something big. Apply the same in your coaching career. Picture your triumphs, feel them. It's not magic, it's science – your brain can't tell the difference. Start seeing your wins, and watch how fear takes the back seat. Let's embrace this game-changer together.

Consider adopting a "test and learn" mindset. With the test and learn mindset, you take small, calculated risks and establish feedback loops to treat every action as an experiment. See which experiments yield good results and which ones don't. Celebrate the learning from each outcome, shifting focus from the fear of failure to the value of the insight gained. Analyzing situations in this way turns setbacks into lessons for continuous improvement. This approach minimizes fear and empowers business coaches to navigate challenges with confidence and curiosity.