How can you effectively network if you're shy?

2 Focus on quality, not quantity

You don't have to talk to everyone at a networking event or collect hundreds of business cards. Instead, focus on having meaningful conversations with a few people who share your goals, values, or passions. You can use your shyness as an advantage by being a good listener, asking open-ended questions, and showing genuine interest in others. You can also look for smaller or quieter groups, where you can join the conversation more easily and comfortably.

3 Use online tools

If you find face-to-face networking too stressful or exhausting, you can use online tools to supplement your efforts. You can create and update your professional profile on platforms like LinkedIn, where you can showcase your skills, achievements, and recommendations. You can also join online communities, forums, or groups related to your industry, where you can share your insights, opinions, and feedback. You can also use social media, email, or messaging apps to follow up with your contacts and maintain your relationships.

4 Seek support

You don't have to network alone. You can seek support from your friends, colleagues, mentors, or coaches who can help you overcome your shyness and boost your networking skills. You can ask them for advice, feedback, or referrals. You can also invite them to join you at networking events, where they can introduce you to their contacts, or act as your wingman or wingwoman. However, don't rely too much on your support network. You still need to make your own connections and show your own personality.

6 Here’s what else to consider

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