How can you develop a thick skin when starting a writing career?

You don't need a thick skin. You need to pay attention to what others are saying. If it's all praise... it's worthless. Improvement lies in those comments that don't flatter. Learn from them.

First things first. You need to read a lot. You need to write a lot. Then you need to submit your material to your audience's feedback. See how they react and accept it. It's never personal. It's a matter of personal taste and content that resonates with them. Remove your ego from the game and let the quality of what you do speak for you. And always remember this: 10% of the people will always hate what you write. No matter what. So... forget about them and focus your energy on the other 90%. It will payback.

Always remember, "to become an expert in any skill, you need to improve every day and always be ready to accept feedback for continuous improvement." I also received constructive feedback when I started writing. I took it positively and worked on it. Because of this, I'm here! Never take feedback personally, understand why have you received it, and what can you do to convert this feedback into appreciation. And last point: Always write and always ask for feedback from experts!

When taking feedback it is always best to read/listen to it and then take a moment before responding. Consider what they have to say. Whether their feedback applies to you or not, thank them for taking time out of their day to help you. Time is a precious resource. Most important of all, remember that everything is subjective. One person may hate what you write but another may love it. Do it for you.

Developing a thick skin as a writer is essential, because even if your work is good you're going to face rejection. Repeatedly. You must believe in yourself and your work enough to persevere. As for criticism, there is helpful, constructive criticism and then there is criticism so-called which comes from those with an axe to grind or who lack reading comprehension. Learn to differentiate.

A writer must be vulnerable and willing to face rejection. If everything always goes smoothly, and if you win every competition on the first try, how do you know that you would pursue your writing career even if, at some point, it stops going so smoothly? There are a billion writing competitions - for short stories, poems, novels, scripts... Constant deadlines and competitions. Over time, I've learned that I don't have to apply to every single competition and that it's not the end of the world if I don't win every time. After all, writing is not a competition - the only person you need to be better than is yesterday's version of yourself.

Rejections are a part of life. If you haven't experienced any rejections, it likely means you haven't ventured into new territories, as rejections often accompany trying something new. Many great accomplishments have taken time and faced numerous rejections before gaining approval. What we can do is to accept rejection and learn why we have rejected and improve ourselves and try again. All we can do is accept rejection, understand why we were rejected, improve ourselves, and then try again. In the end, I'll say success is very near we simply need to avoid the rejection fear.

The best thing you can do as an early career writer is get it in front of as much smart criticism as possible. Thick skin doesn't come from praise. You need tough editors and readers who aren't shy about speaking up. And to maximize how much feedback you can get, you must in turn maximize the volume of work you produce. Write everyday — and share everything you write on the internet.

Rejection can not be skipped for any reason because before someone became a professional, he was once an amateur. So, clients will always reject jobs which doesn't fit into their expectations. But know this! Rejecting your copy or content doesn't mean that it is end of the world. It only calls for improvement. Rejection means grow up, know more, improve, be professional, and do more research. Thank you.

If feedback is the recipe for growth, rejection is the garnishing. Rejection clearly tells you you are ''almost'' there, and you need to push yourself a little harder to get there. How? Suppose you were shortlisted for a writing project or an interview. But then you didn't get selected. Now, ask yourself, "Why was I shortlisted?" Because you have skills. "But why was I rejected?" Because you need to hone your writing skills further. Yes, rejection hurts. But it also tells you, you are on the right track to growth. Use this aspect of rejection to fuel your motivation to become a better writer. And keep working on your skills. Giving up in the face of rejection is the worst mistake you can make. It's akin to questioning your credibility!

You have to admit, "writing is a unique profession being practiced for centuries." To be a part of this centuries old profession requires tough skin and heart. There are certain skills and tricks which helps you grow. However, some could learned by yourself and some have to be taught by the experts. Therefore, a mentor or a guide is essential, no matter how good you write. There certain moments when you think of quitting this profession. But, having a right person's hand on your back keep you moving forward. Thus, I advocate the point to 'Find Support.'

Writers might find it hard to find people who understand them or their journey. But despite this it is important to communicate with loved ones in order to find support. As writers we should communicate what we feel to our loved ones for them to understand us better and provide the needed support. Online Writing Groups are a great way to find a Community of like-minded individuals.

I believe that there's no harm in asking for help, otherwise how do you learn? As a new copywriter, asking for help can boost your confidence and improve your skills.

Normally I don’t share my personal thoughts and ideas of fiction writing though I am into some problems while writing. However, if any technical issues come up in my fiction, I would discuss them with a subject expert to avoid any mistakes. Yes, Online Writing Groups are a great way to find a Community of like-minded writers.

In the often solitary realm of writing, especially for those working from home or freelancing, seeking support from fellow writers through groups, online communities, or mentorship programs becomes essential for cultivating resilience, motivation, and the exchange of valuable feedback, advice, and resources; additionally, drawing support from friends, family, and colleagues who appreciate your writing and align with your goals helps create a positive and encouraging environment.

Starting a writing career is a tumultuous journey where self-care isn't a luxury but a necessity. Writing is more than crafting words; it's about nurturing the writer behind them. In the face of critical feedback and rejection; self-care becomes crucial. Find balance- take breaks, go for a walk, or indulge in a hobby- recharge my creative batteries. Criticism stings, but bouncing back depends on self-care. When words feel heavy, a quiet moment with tea or a workout builds resilience. Caring for your well-being is a strategy for enduring success. Amid deadlines and critiques, be kind to yourself. A well-nurtured writer is a resilient one.

Prioritize self-care in your writing journey, recognizing that the mental and emotional toll, especially under pressure, deadlines, or criticism, necessitates attention to physical, mental, and emotional well-being; embrace practices like sufficient sleep, healthy eating, exercise, meditation, relaxation, and enjoyable activities, while also setting boundaries, saying no, taking breaks, and seeking assistance when needed, to recharge energy, uplift mood, and foster creativity in your writing pursuits.

Practicing self-care after a writing session, editing, receiving constructive criticism or even getting a rejection is so important. Writing is an art, and for art to be developed and created it needs rest and time for it to healthly bloom. Take a break, do your favorite things, and go back to it when you feel a little bit lighter. I never wrote something I was proud of when I was feeling heavy, sad and frustrated. And if I did it took me to a long burnout afterwards.

When a person starts a new carrier, it is normal to often feel like you're not good enough & get discouraged, especially with a talent such as writing which means that you're putting yourself out there, so you're inviting judgment from people on you, so it is important to surround yourself around good people who will give you honest feedback & that you'll be able to accept from them even when they critique you, yet practicing to know how good you really are & believing in yourself should be top priority, cuz you'll need thick skin for when you don't find support, yet still want to push your item.

During the year I wrote my novel I found it helpful to follow a healthy rhythm at least 5-6 days a week. This included getting to bed relatively early, getting up at the same time, as well as cutting back on alcohol consumption. I felt I needed to be 100 percent fit and alert when I wrote in the mornings. I felt it worked great, even though of course you will have to give yourself a break from this regimen every once in a while.

You, celebrating your achievements would make you feel happy about your work. Happy writing would reflect in the voice of your writing. Making it an interesting piece. The more confident you are. The more vibrant and lively you'd write.

Ritualising finished chunks of content help. Finished a chapter? Go take a walk in the park. Rough draft done? Treat yourself to your favourite sweet. Worked through a very demanding primary source? Read a short story you like or something like that. Different people need different motivations. For some, just having written is reward enough. Others need a specific goal to work towards. If that one is a treat or reward, the positive feedback can help stay motivated.

Show up for yourself! When you know you did hit a benchmark or you improved at writing, crafting content validate yourself! Celebrate every small wins! Because remember celebrating yourself will help you get ahead!

We should celebrate all your achievements, small and big. The small ones may not seem much today but they are the foundation to bigger success. Writers must acknowledge their achievements and congratulate them. It is important to not concentrate on the negative aspects.

Cultivate a positive mindset in your writing journey by recognizing that while challenges exist, celebrating your achievements is crucial; shift focus from the negatives to acknowledge efforts, accomplishments, and milestones, embracing rewards, sharing your work, receiving praise, and documenting growth to foster a sense of pride, happiness, and sustained motivation as a writer.

Remember that what you're paid at the start of your writing career doesn't define your writing skills and abilities. It can be tough to push through lower paying jobs, but remember writing is like any career path and the more experience you have, the more marketable you'll become. Stick it out long enough so you have plenty of bylines to show higher paying clients and employers down the road.

Embarking on a writing career necessitates a resilient mindset. Keep writing is the key. Rejections, an inevitable part of the writing landscape, should not be perceived as dead ends but rather as detours leading to unforeseen opportunities. Each "no" presents a chance to learn, adapt, and fortify your narrative expertise. Commitment to constant enhancement is the cornerstone of a successful writing trajectory, and through persistent dedication, your distinct voice evolves into the signature of your literary endeavors.

Behind what often passes for talent are years of hard work, practice, and skill honing. Remember that whenever you start to feel insecure about your writing. You will get better with time and practice. So, instead of fixating on how others react to your writing, develop a solid plan to practice your writing every single day. Learn from others. Try different techniques and writing styles. Figure out what time of day you're at your best, and carve out time for writing when you're brain juices are flowing. All of that will make you a better writer. With skill development comes confidence. With confidence comes a thicker skin.

You chose to write, so keep writing. I write for myself, but these days, a few others enjoy my words. This is my bonus and keeps me placing words on paper. Sometimes even in the write order.

It is common to experience a flight, fight or freeze. However, out of the three freeze is the one reaction you want to avoid. In general, if I experience it, regardless of whether it is a consequence of untoward feedback or simply the stress of an approaching deadline. I tend to bypass this by giving myself a short break from writing on the project, instead, I write for my well-being. It could be a kind note to myself, journaling or even sending an email to that old friend that I haven't heard from for a while. This boosts my morale and gives me the strength to resume writing on my project with more impetus in light of the received feedback.

Someone says your writing is so awful the garbage collector would refuse to cart it away. Harsh, right? Does it mean you should immediately stop writing? ABSOLUTELY NOT. You will get criticism when you start anything. What do you do? 1. Remember, even Stephen King was once a beginner. 2. You become an expert with practice, practice, and more practice. 3. Take all criticism, even the dreadful ones, as feedback to learn from. 4. Analyze the feedback. Dissect it to bits. Take each bit and see how you can improve. 5. Don't be shy of asking for help. Reach out to mentors. 6. Don't isolate yourself. Build yourself a supportive community to talk things over, give help and receive help. 7. And then, practice some more!

Making the writing process enjoyable is a game changer for me. We usually do things we enjoy. Infusing fun into the writing process is sure way to keep at it.

Work in an industry that is not your gender ?????? I spent 4 decades in engineering If I had not developed a thick skin early, I would have become a wild flower When someone screams at you!! YOU SHOULD BE HOME LOOKING AFTER KIDS kind of says it all And yes I got his job, and not because I was a female, it was the 80’s ????

Don’t submit it for feedback until it’s been a few days since you completed it. The few days gives you a cushion to not be as attached to it as you were when it’s still fresh and you’re still enveloped in it. It helps you better separate yourself from the piece and approach the critique from a more logical POV.

1. Always be ready to face criticism and backlash. Not every piece you write will connect with people. 2. Always remember why you chose this. Writing is a profession of creative and thoughtful minds. You decided to be one of those change makers. 3. Do not celebrate too early. And one thing to always remember, "there is no such thing like early success. It is the result of what you kept doing." 4. Even though you achieve success at any stage, always keep a mindset of 'learning.'