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Here's how you can use active listening to resolve conflicts and solve problems.

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Conflicts are an inevitable part of life, whether at work, at home, or in social settings. However, the way you handle these conflicts can make a significant difference in the outcomes and relationships involved. Active listening is a powerful tool in conflict management and problem-solving. It involves fully concentrating, understanding, responding, and then remembering what is being said. This article will guide you through the steps of using active listening to navigate through disputes effectively.

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1 Understand First

Before jumping to conclusions or crafting your rebuttal, take the time to truly understand the other person's perspective. Active listening starts with giving your full attention to the speaker, acknowledging their feelings, and not interrupting. By doing so, you demonstrate respect and openness, which can help de-escalate tension. Reflect back what you've heard to ensure clarity. This step can often reveal the root of the conflict and pave the way toward a solution.

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Sharon Jones

Igniting people's people skills : no fluff lots of learning interactive design & facilitation : Best selling author
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When active listening - quiet your own judgemental voice. We all have it; the one you hear saying things like ‘if I were you this is what I would do…’. We are not them so our opinions are worthless to focus fully on the other person and truly hear what they are saying, repeat the words they say in your own head - just don’t move your mouth at the same time! When they have finished, paraphrase what you have heard them say- don’t repeat it parrot fashion because that shows maybe you heard but not that you understood. Also see if you can name the emotion and how they feel about it

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Il est important de ne pas confondre l'écoute active avec l'écoute attentive. En effet on oublie trop souvent de mentionner qu'au-delà de l'accueil de la parole de l'autre et de ses émotions, l'écoute active est aussi une écoute de soi en résonnance aux paroles de l'autre. C'est ainsi que la compréhension de la situation peut-être parfaitement cadrée.

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2 Reflect Emotions

It's crucial to recognize and reflect the emotions being expressed. This doesn't mean you have to agree with the other person's feelings, but acknowledging them can validate their experience and reduce defensiveness. Use phrases like "It sounds like you're feeling..." to show empathy. This can build trust and rapport, which are essential for resolving conflicts and fostering a collaborative environment for problem-solving.

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Zion Givens

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This is so crucial when it comes to effective communication! One thing I would encourage when reflecting the other persons’ emotions try not to invalidate their emotions. This can sound like “I get what you’re feeling but don’t you think you’re being sensitive?” That comment or response has the potential to create even greater problems.

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3 Ask Questions

Asking open-ended questions is a key aspect of active listening that encourages the speaker to elaborate on their thoughts and feelings. It shows that you're engaged and interested in understanding their point of view more deeply. Questions like "What do you think would be a fair solution?" or "How did that make you feel?" invite further discussion and can lead to insights that help resolve the conflict.

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4 Share Perspectives

Once you've actively listened and understood the other person's point of view, it's your turn to share your perspective. Do this calmly and clearly, using "I" statements to express your thoughts and feelings without placing blame. For example, "I feel concerned when..." This approach can help prevent the other person from feeling attacked and keeps the conversation focused on resolving the issue.

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5 Find Common Ground

Identifying areas of agreement can be a turning point in conflict resolution. Through active listening, you may discover that you share similar goals or concerns with the other person. Highlight these commonalities to shift the focus from opposing positions to shared interests. This can create a foundation for collaborative problem-solving and lead to mutually beneficial solutions.

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6 Move Forward

Finally, use the insights gained from active listening to develop a plan of action. Discuss next steps and responsibilities, ensuring that both parties are clear on what is expected. This helps to solidify any agreement reached and lays out a clear path for implementation. Remember, the goal is not only to resolve the current conflict but also to strengthen the relationship for future interactions.

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7 Here’s what else to consider

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