Here's how you can turn failure into a valuable learning experience.

Trade in your expectations for acceptance and your whole changes. I have found that the expectations I put on myself, other people, places and things has a profound impact on my ability to accept that where I am is exactly where I need to be. One of my favorite quotes from Tony Robbins is that “life is happening for us, not to us”. If we define our failures as a positive in our life then we have mindset to move forward with new purpose and perspective.

Reframe failure as feedback and consider it as one of the options that has been tried and take the lessons learned into the next option.

Strike out? Not a strikeout! Turn failure into a win with this: Feel the sting, but learn the lesson: It's okay to be bummed, but don't drown in it. Analyze what went wrong. Growth mindset activated: This setback isn't a roadblock, it's a detour. See the opportunity to improve. Seek wisdom from the ashes: What can I learn from this? Identify areas for improvement to prevent future stumbles. Bounce back stronger: Apply those lessons! Use this experience to strategically course-correct and crush it next time. By acknowledging my emotions, embracing a growth mindset, learning from the experience, and applying those lessons, I'll transform failure into a valuable stepping stone on the road to success.

The first step is to dissect what went wrong. Take a deep breath and approach the situation with a curious mind. Ask yourself questions: What were the goals? What went differently? Were there external factors, or were your skills or approach lacking? Be honest with yourself, gather evidence if needed, and pinpoint the root causes of the failure.

Certainly. I always talk about having a growth mindset and understanding that failure is certainly a part of growth as opposed to having a mindset where each failure becomes a debilitating experience that blocks out learning and therefore growth. Understanding that we are energy is also extremely important in this analysis because depending on the state of your energy positive or negative, your programmed beliefs.. limiting or otherwise … the systems you are running … in control or out of control you can create that state where you are so positively inclined and therefore willing to see growth rather than accept failure.Once a continuous audit of the mind is carried out it becomes easier to align the mind with positivity

Según interpreto, el fracaso está relacionado con no haber logrado el resultado deseado. En este sentido, no hemos fracasado, simplemente hemos logrado un resultado diferente al deseado. Viéndolo así, es posible "ver" aquellos resultados intermedios que contribuyeron, que nos permitieron avanzar... y es MUY importante iniciar por este camino, "viendo lo positivo".

L'échec n'existe pas ! Ce qui est encore considéré pour beaucoup comme un 'échec' ou une 'erreur', n'est qu'une expérimentation qui nous apprend des choses sur nous, nos besoins, nos valeurs...ce n'est donc qu' une belle opportunité de pouvoir faire plus intelligemment la fois d'après ??

Once you understand the "why" behind the failure, it's time to extract the valuable lessons. What knowledge did you gain? Did you discover weaknesses you can improve on? Perhaps you learned a new approach that could be successful in the future. Look beyond the disappointment and identify the hidden gems of wisdom this experience offered.

Quien nunca ha sufrido un traspiés, no sabe levantarse y seguir caminando. Estos procesos refuerzan nuestro temperamento, resiliencia y creatividad. No hace ser más fuertes. Nos prepara para la vida.

To be able to arrive at this stage where we are open to see learned lessons, we often have passed through some difficult moments analysing all the outcomes. With a rested and clear mind we can start to look at silver linnings in life. Being able to have this more optimistic view of the world will help us live a more fulfilling Life.

Within failure often exists the most valuable lessons that you have to extract. - What can you take away from this setback to make you stronger and more capable of achieving your outcome? Perhaps it's a skill that needs honing or a gap in your knowledge that needs filling. It could be realizing your limits or an insight into your decision-making process. Whatever the lessons, they are the silver lining opportunities to the traditional cloud of failure, guiding you toward better choices in the future. Learning from every experience, positive or less than ideal, is critical to thriving.

If you learn nothing from it then face facts….that is a failure. But learning is invaluable so embrace what you got from the experience and take it to the next one.

Armed with your newfound knowledge, it's time to adapt your strategies. How can you use the lessons learned to improve your future endeavours? Maybe you must develop a new skill, refine your approach, or have a backup plan for similar situations. I don't see this as starting over but as a chance to correct my course and move forward with a stronger foundation.

With lessons and reflections in hand, you can adjust your strategies accordingly. This might mean - setting new incremental intentions and goals, - changing your approach and outcome, - or developing new skills to break through an identified setback. It's about creating mindsets, skill sets, and an agile plan, considering the insights you've gained from your analysis. This proactive step ensures that you're not just passively experiencing failure but actively using it as a catalyst for change. Adjusting your strategies and potentially the end goal can help prevent similar shortfalls and set you on a path to success. In my life-work coaching, I emphasize the importance of strategic adjustments for sustainable growth.

Si efectivamente sucedieron aprendizajes intrapersonales, es decir, desarrollo de nuevos conocimientos y/o nuevas habilidades, puede ajustarse las acciones.

Adjusting strategies is a game-changer in harnessing the full potential of your experiences, especially setbacks. When you've gathered those crucial lessons from your setbacks, you can make more informed decisions moving forward. This step is about turning insights into action! Creating a new plan might involve setting more precise goals, tweaking your methods, or even acquiring new skills that align with your newfound understanding. Every adjustment you make is a step towards not just avoiding past mistakes, but also paving a stronger, more resilient path forward. This proactive approach not only helps you avoid repeating the same errors but also propels you towards your goals with greater wisdom and confidence.

Avec les réponses aux questions précédentes c'est le moment de passer à l'action. J'ai pour habitude de conseiller la loi de Pareto dans le choix des actions à mettre en place. "Quelle est LA chose que je peux mettre en place dès maintenant et qui m'apporterait le plus de résultat?" Cela peut-être prendre un coach, acheter une formation, ou toute autre chose susceptible d'apporter un changement radical

Resilience is a critical skill in overcoming failure. Stand-up comedians often experience failure, known as "bombing," when the audience doesn't laugh at their jokes. As a stand-up comedian myself, I know it's an awful feeling. However, "bombing" has taught me to embrace failure. I rewrite a joke until it works or decide to retire it. What fails one night may succeed another evening. Embracing failure strengthens our resilience. Facing the fear of trying something scary is overwhelming, but doing what we fear helps us learn, grow, and become better.

Building resilience is crucial for managing emotions and extracting valuable lessons from failure. - Resilience is your pragmatically built ability and muscle to bounce back and continue moving forward. Maintaining a positive outlook and staying committed to your outcomes despite setbacks. Cultivating resilience can include - practicing mindfulness, - seeking support from others, - or simply giving yourself time to recover and invest in self-care and energy renewal. Remember, resilience is not about never failing but learning to recover from setbacks and drains more effectively. Resilience is a fundamental attribute for long-term success in life-work design that I coach clients toward.

A person who wins every time does not exist! And if they did what happens when they first lose (not worth thinking about). Knowing we can lose and knowing it does not mean we will fail next time is key to our ability to absorb knocks as we move through the pinball machine and stay upright while moving forward.

As small children we take a step and fall but we pick ourselves up and try again. We will fall many times before we can walk confidently. This is where we have inherent resilience. The more knocks we get in life and are able to pick ourselves up the stronger we become. Did you ever notice a tree at the end of a windy outcrop and noticing it bending over and you may wonder how it's still standing. But because of the constant battering by strong winds it has created a strong root system that no wind will fell it. That's exactly what happens us when we get knocked down and decide we want to learn and move forward. While no-one likes to fall it's where nuggets of wisdom are learnt. We are more resilient than we give ourselves credit for.

What I have found in my life is that resilience is a learned skill. It is the ability to rise up after adversity even stronger with new purpose and perspective. I have developed the “Triple A” formula to help others overcome adversity and build resilience for whatever comes next in life. To Accept, Appreciate and Assess helps you build that resilience and move toward your life’s purpose.

Remember that nothing is wasted! Every up, down, struggle, challenge, and setback is there to teach you and strengthen you. When you recognize that nothing is wasted and everything ( even the bad) contributes to the outcome, and you remember all that you have conquered in the midst of past struggles, you will press on because as you remember that the challenges of the past were not enough to hold you back or stop you !

When faced with a setbacks, I ask myself: "What lessons do you want me to learn, Creator?" There's something about how we humans are wired that requires us to learn from not always getting it right the first time. Embracing failure with a learning mindset helps us discover strengths hidden within our experiences. I try not to see failure as something final but rather as messages pointing me toward other actions or solutions. I know that some failures can rock us to our core, making it hard to see a way back. In these times it is important to have a good network a group of people who can circle the wagons around us when times get tough, who will lift us up and tell us that we can do it until we believe it for ourselves again.

You can take a break to re-analyse the situation and decide what your next steps will be. Do not let a hurdle stop you from achieving your progress. Take the positives, recharge yourself, and continue the journey. I am sure this is not the first and it will not be the last hurdle you will face.

Como dije en el punto 5, sucederá por motivación, es decir, si lograr el resultado brindará aportes y beneficios que en el presente no están.

Maintaining momentum is crucial in the journey towards achieving your goals. Think of it as setting the pace in a long race. You don't need to sprint at full speed at every moment, but you do need to keep moving. Adjust your stride when necessary, pick up the pace when you can, and always keep your eyes on the finish line. Moreover, engaging with your ambitions daily, whether through planning, visualization, or execution, keeps your goals clear and your motivation fresh. It’s about creating a routine that fosters progress and keeps you grounded in your aspirations. Remember, an object in motion tends to stay in motion, so keep pushing forward, keep learning, and keep growing.

Failure holds life’s greatest lessons, when you learn to reframe. Embracing a growth mindset, we can reframe failure from a negative to a neutral event. Shift from “I can’t” to “not yet.” As designers of our lives, we have two pathways: - Analyze and Course Correct: When you fail, analyze the factors, adjust, and try again. - Analyze and Pivot: When you fail, analyze the factors and decide if this path aligns with your goals. If not, pivot with the insights gained. ?? This mindset transforms failure into a crucial part of the design process, allowing you to build forward with confidence and resilience.

One super important aspect of what we call failure is grief which most people never acknowledge. When you don’t get the desired outcome, there is a sense of loss. Loss of possibilities attached to the outcomes, perceived loss of investment and efforts in the process. It’s pertinent to bouncing back to process that grief. Feel it. Acknowledge it and then move forward.

Fail when broken down can be read as F: First A: Attempt I: In L: Learning With that said, I would genuinely like to add that all plans are meant to be adapter and changed. Throughout life and it's challenges, we learn to adapt. What I learnt also is that, we are humans, not robots. We NEED to recharge our batteries, both the physical and emotional ones. What is important with plans also, is to Review, Rewrite, Refocus. I do that when I am at cross roads and I evaluate my plan, then adapt the changes required by using the 3 R's listed. Hope this helps

From Failure to Inspiration: (Share your journey, inspire others) My experiences, failures and all, fueled my resilience. I began to share my story, polishing my communication skills on platforms like Quora, Medium, and LinkedIn. Focusing on pacing, consistency, and character development, I transformed my fears into strengths. Understanding myself on a deeper level became the fuel for my personal transformation. Today, I live a life brimming with purpose, connecting and inspiring others "one conversation at a time." My upcoming book, "YOU ARE NOT FOR EVERYONE," embodies this philosophy – a message of self-acceptance and the power of resilience in the face of adversity.

An outcome can be called a failure only if the expectations are not met due to inadequate actions on our part. However, if you have done everything possible from your side and still the expectations are not met, it doesn’t mean it is a failure. Instead, it means there is something to learn from the experience. Either you will learn what further needs to be done, or you will adjust your expectations. In either case, all outcomes are stepping stones in our learning and growth process.